The focus of Estate Planning Attorneys is the mature client who comes to realize the significant value that they have accomplished during many years of work and thoughtful savings. Less often, our attention is drawn to young adults or to the children of our Estate Planning clients. But we should navigate toward a new model.
There’s no question that our young adults, and particularly our children who have recently become new parents, need to plan early and update often. The goal is clear: plan for protection of themselves and their family, plan for management of their own assets and life activities, and give them an early start towards a tax efficient retirement and retirement planning strategies to take advantage of right now, so that our kids have material opportunities when that time comes.
What do our children look to during this important step?
Creating the important building blocks:
This is a plan, like any other. A flexible and thoughtful basic estate plan includes a Last Will and Testament, Powers of Attorney for both healthcare purposes and for property and financial purposes (sometimes called Durable Powers of Attorney), HIPAA authorizations, and perhaps even their own living trust.
Why does a young adult need a Will?
Everyone needs a Will in order to make sure that they have consciously selected the person who will be responsible for following through with estate activities and distributing estate assets should that time come earlier than expected. As parents, we have to recognize that our children may not want us to be the ones to necessarily handle the disposition of their estate, and particularly once they have entered into long-term relationships with their significant other.
Of course, young adults today have many more assets, particularly intangible assets (think non-fungible-tokens, digital assets and digital media business and personal interests), and they want to make sure are distributed according to their own plan.
Finally, once our kids begin to build their own Family, the all-important identification of a guardian for their own young children (your grandchildren) becomes an important purpose for creating a Will. Should something happen to your child and their spouse, the law and a court will impose the very personal decision of who will be guardian for your grandchildren. The law books are full of cases involving fights between maternal and paternal grandparents who each believe that they will be a better guardian for their grandchildren. Why leave the family with those battles, which are emotionally and financially taxing, at a time when your grandchildren’s welfare should be the focus of your attention?
Why should your young adult create a Power of Attorney for healthcare?
Just like a life insurance policy that we hope we will only need many years from now, the Power of Attorney for healthcare document is one of the most useful and least discussed tool among young adults.
The law is clear that once our children are emancipated at 18 years old, even if they are still living under our own roof, they are viewed as adults in the eyes of the law. Parents are not necessarily going to be able to make important healthcare choices and decisions on behalf of their child, even in the event of an emergency. Indeed, even after our child enters into a relationship with a spouse or a civil union otherwise recognized by law, the child’s life partner may not be able to make vital decisions for them in connection with medical procedures, medical records, prescriptions, and all-important end of life decisions.
The HIPAA authorization is often embodied within the healthcare POA, but may be a separate document created for the useful purpose of having access to health insurance information and other authorizations that may not be easily accomplished if our kids are unable to act on their own, whether temporarily or permanently.
What is a Power of Attorney for property or financial matters?
If our children are unable to act on their own for the many mundane and important purposes for which actions and decisions are made each day, those activities must be accomplished with the help of a surrogate. We call this person the Agent.
The Agent will act for them on an interim basis or perhaps permanently, if we cannot manage the variety of property-related activities of daily living that need to be taken care of. For starters, think of dealing with an employer or an employer’s different types of benefit plans, filing tax returns, paying routine bills for home and personal purposes, making investment decisions to protect stocks, bonds and other assets from loss, hiring professionals like attorneys and accountants, and applying for benefits available under government programs.
Creating the basic Living Trust can be a valuable exercise:
If your own estate plan provides that your children will inherit significant assets, even in their early years, those inherited assets are properly the subject of discussions concerning asset protection strategies that are going to be important for our children, at any age.
Without proper planning, assets inherited by our children may become subject to collection actions by their own creditors, or may become the target of a bankruptcy trustee if our child needs to seek relief from voluntary or involuntary obligations that threaten their assets and life plans. Indeed, as one colleague often reminds us: “I love my child, but I may not love my child’s spouse.” Setting up a Living Trust for your child to receive inheritance, and assisting your child to create their own Living Trust to make plans for their own asset distribution and protection, can be a very useful and manageable technique that both of you should consider.
Perhaps you know now that your child has become the object of a creditor attack arising from a failed business situation, or an unexpected accident causing injury to another, or a myriad of other concerns that cause parents to lose sleep.
Our consideration needs to be focused on protecting our child, and that includes asset protection strategies. The Life Insurance proceeds that may be inherited by our child are not protected in their hands once the distribution has been made by the insurance company. Likewise, the 401(k) and IRA assets that we are working so hard too build during our lifetime may be exempt from our own creditors under most circumstances, but are not exempt from our children’s creditors.
Our ultimate goal?
Protection. We are vigilant in so many of our daily activities to avoid troublesome situations. But, remarkably, we often give so little thought to all of these tools and considerations for our children. Perhaps because these tools fall under the label of “estate planning” when they should really be considered “life planning” activities. We can teach our children how to be thoughtful when something happens to us, and how to maneuver through the estate planning tools we have created for our own benefit and for the benefit of our families.
And we can also provide important education to help our kids set up for their own long-term successes.
Attorneys Marc Sherman and Maureen Meersman can provide helpful guidance if you would like to set up a time to review these useful considerations for yourself or with your children. Marc and Maureen are available for your consultation: https://mshermanlaw.com/contact/